Most affirmations fail because people skip the process. Learn the 3 types of people using affirmations — and the mindset shift that unlocks real results.
Have you ever wondered why your affirmations aren’t working? You say them daily, write them in your journal, and even visualise them — but nothing seems to change.
Here’s the hard truth: affirmations are not magical spells. They’re not quick fixes. They are spoken commitments, intentions, and declarations you make to a higher power — not just empty words. While many people refer to the “universe,” I choose to say “God” — the Creator of all things.
To truly understand why affirmations often fail, you must know the difference between merely speaking words and truly living in alignment with them.
The 3 Types of People Using Affirmations
1. The Ones Who Ask, But Don’t Believe
These individuals keep asking — “I want success,” “I am rich,” “I attract love” — but deep down, they don’t believe it’s possible. They repeat affirmations without faith or conviction.
But as Jesus said:
“Ask, and it shall be given to you.”
This means asking must come with genuine belief.
2. The Ones Who Ask and Believe, But Give Up Midway
These people are one step ahead. They believe in what they affirm — they trust that they will receive it. But then… they get impatient. They don’t understand how God works.
Let’s say they ask God for a basket of gold. Instead of giving them the gold directly, God may first teach them how to grow bamboo — and eventually how to make a basket from that bamboo. Why? Because He is preparing them to receive and hold the blessing.
But sadly, most people quit in the middle of this preparation process, thinking the affirmation didn’t work.
They lose faith right before the breakthrough.
3. The Ones Who Prepare to Receive
These are the rare few who truly succeed with affirmations.
They ask, believe — and most importantly — they prepare.
They trust the process. They take the long road if needed. They build the foundation. They understand that God doesn’t just deliver — He transforms you into the person who can carry the blessing.
These are the people who receive what they affirm, because they’re aligned in belief, action, and readiness.
The Real Secret: Ask, Believe, Prepare, Receive — and Give Thanks
Affirmations work when you do.
You must not only ask and believe — you must become the kind of person who can receive and hold the blessing.
So yes — affirm:
- Ask with clarity
- Believe with conviction
- Prepare with action
- Receive with humility
- And give thanks with a grateful heart
Don’t just say it. Live it.
And always remember this powerful truth:
Before God gives you the gold, He may teach you how to make the basket.
How to Make Affirmations Work Better
| ✅ Key Strategy | 💡 Why It Helps |
|---|---|
| Start with neutral or realistic statements | Easier to believe; reduces inner resistance |
| Pair affirmations with action and skills | Reinforces mindset with behaviors |
| Address limiting beliefs or past trauma | Resolves core resistance |
| Create a consistent repeat schedule | Neural pathways strengthen with repetition |
| Ensure affirmations evoke positive feelings | Emotional resonance amplifies impact |
Conclusion:
Affirmations aren’t magic spells — they’re tools. Tools that work only when used correctly.
Many people fail with affirmations because they skip the real work: building belief, facing limiting thoughts, and taking aligned action. They repeat positive phrases without addressing the inner resistance or doing the outer work needed to bring those words to life.
But when you approach affirmations the right way — with realism, emotional engagement, consistency, and faith — they become powerful declarations of intent. They rewire your thoughts, shift your energy, and open the door to real transformation.
